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What Lactation Consultants Wish All New Parents Knew About Breastfeeding

Find out what to expect while breastfeeding and how lactation consultants can help.

For a newly lactating parent, breastfeeding is a totally new skill. As you get to know your baby (and your body), you may have a lot of questions. A lactation consultant is an amazing resource that can help make your breastfeeding journey easier. By providing support, hands-on help, and plenty of info, International Board Certified Lactation Consultants are on your side. Read on to find out the top things they wish all new parents knew about breastfeeding and working with an IBCLC.

It Takes Time to Get the Hang of Breastfeeding

It’s funny to think that something as natural as breastfeeding doesn’t always come so naturally. There’s a learning curve to breastfeeding in which you and your baby will get to know each other and figure out what works for you. But know this: Within the first two weeks, you’ll become so much more comfortable, both with recognizing your baby’s cues and with the actual act of breastfeeding. Any initial nipple soreness and major engorgement will go away, and your supply will be more regulated. As your baby grows, your breastfeeding relationship will continue to evolve, but you’ll feel much more confident after that first couple of weeks.

You Might Be Sore at First

When your milk comes in, your breasts will likely feel very full, hard, and warm. Your nipples, too, will probably feel sore at first, simply because they’re not accustomed to being latched onto by your baby multiple times a day. Though you may experience some initial soreness, you should expect it to subside within 30 seconds of baby latching, and to disappear entirely after 10 days of breastfeeding.

If you’re experiencing sustained pain during or after nursing, connect with an IBCLC. They can help you address what is likely a latching issue. Know that prolonged pain, cracking, and bleeding are all issues of immediate concern. If you notice them, you should get in touch with an IBCLC as soon as possible.

Feeding Products Can Make Things Easier

There are so many essential lactation supplies on the market, from clothing to accessories like nipple pads and shields. We highly recommend registering for a nursing pillow to support your baby and prevent back pain, as well as a comfy nursing bra that provides easy access to your nipples. But really, the most crucial part of breastfeeding is YOU. Focus on taking care of yourself (we know it’s tough—especially in those first weeks) and establishing your supply. An IBCLC can help you do just that!

An IBCLC Can Help Before and After Baby Arrives

IBCLCs are often called in when parents have an issue or concern. But a consultation doesn’t have to happen at the first sign of trouble. IBCLCs can also establish a relationship with you and provide information that will set you up for success once your baby arrives. They can address concerns and answer questions—and, trust us, no question is off-limits. They’re experts focused on helping you achieve your individualized goals, celebrating your milestones, and helping you overcome any challenges. 

IBCLC Visits Are Customizable

Let’s talk about what happens at a standard visit: An IBCLC will start by going over your medical, delivery, and breastfeeding history as well as what’s currently going on. In many cases, they’ll perform a weighted feed—weighing your baby before and after a feeding to see how much milk they are taking in—so it’s a good idea to make sure your baby hasn’t eaten right before the visit. They’ll then physically assess your baby, evaluate their latch, observe their sucking and swallowing, and show you various breastfeeding positions to find what’s most comfortable.

Though this is standard procedure, your consultation can always be fit to your unique needs. An IBCLC’s role is to make sure to address any challenges or questions you may have. They can talk about how to alleviate any pain, manage an oversupply, or build up a low supply. Many lactation consultants also have experience checking babies for tongue or lip ties and signs of reflux.

If you’re pumping, an IBCLC can even go over how to use your breast pump and check the fit of the flanges (yes, they come in different sizes!). At the end of the visit, they’ll collaborate with you to build a plan that works for you. Lactation consultants provide advice, recommendations, and support based on your individual needs.

IBCLCs Can Address a Wide Range of Issues

Some of the most common issues IBCLCs help parents with include: Getting a good latch, confirming how much milk the baby is transferring, positioning, learning how to use nursing and pumping items, managing supply, and preventing pain. IBCLCs are troubleshooters, myth-debunkers, and cheerleaders. After an initial visit, many IBCLCs will also provide ongoing support via phone or email and can do follow-up visits.

Your Insurance May Cover IBCLC Visits

Yes, really! It’s possible to have your IBCLC visits covered by insurance. Simply request an IBCLC consultation with TLN. We’ll confirm your insurance coverage, bill the provider directly, connect you with an IBCLC, and set up a 90-minute in-home evaluation and consultation.

You’re Doing a Great Job!

The beginning of parenthood is a vulnerable time. During this time, IBCLCs really want to help make breastfeeding a positive experience. That means there’s no judgment about your choices, your body, or your concerns! It’s okay to get emotional. It’s okay to be topless during your entire visit. It’s okay for your house to be a mess. They’ve seen it all and they want what’s best for you and baby. Period.

At TLN, we believe IBCLCs are valuable resources every parent deserves to have access to. You and your feeding journey are important, and we want to support you every step of the way. Whether breastfeeding is going smoothly or serving up major challenges, don’t hesitate to reach out for extra support.